Zombie-ing and Other Dating Trends That Need to Die
Darling, dating today isn’t just a battlefield—it’s a haunted house filled with modern-day horrors like zombie-ing, breadcrumbing, and orbiting. They’re the villains of romance, sneaking into your love life uninvited and leaving you with emotional whiplash.
These toxic trends? They need to die—and we’re here to bury them. Let’s expose these dating disasters, call them out for the nonsense they are, and reclaim your time, energy, and sanity.
Zombie-ing: Back from the Dead, But Why?
Just when you thought they were gone for good—boom! A text pops up like a ghost rising from the grave. Zombie-ing is when someone who ghosted you suddenly reappears, acting like they didn’t leave you hanging.
💬 What It Sounds Like:
“Hey, stranger. Missed me?”
“I was just thinking about you…”
🎃 Why It’s Creepy:
Zombie-ing isn’t about rekindling romance; it’s about boredom or ego. They’re not reaching out because they care—they just want to see if you’ll still bite.
✨ How to Respond:
You don’t. Delete, block, and remember: You’re not a second choice, babe.
Breadcrumbing: Crumbs Won’t Cut It
Breadcrumbing is the emotional version of being led on a wild goose chase. They drop tiny morsels of attention to keep you hooked, but never enough for a real connection.
💬 What It Sounds Like:
“We should totally hang out sometime.” (Spoiler: They never do.)
“Thinking about you!” (But never actually doing anything about it.)
🥖 Why It’s Exhausting:
Breadcrumbing isn’t romantic—it’s lazy. They’re stringing you along just enough to keep you interested but not enough to commit.
✨ How to Respond:
Say it loud: “I need consistency, not crumbs.” Then leave them to snack on their own drama.
Orbiting: Ghosts on Social Media
Orbiting is when someone disappears from your life but still lingers in your digital space. They watch your Instagram stories, like your posts, and make you question if they’re secretly plotting a comeback. Spoiler: They’re not.
💬 What It Looks Like:
They ghosted but still watch every story like it’s their favorite Netflix show.
They “like” your pics but don’t have the guts to text.
👻 Why It’s Annoying:
Orbiting is the dating equivalent of a mosquito—buzzing around, adding zero value, and making you want to swat them away.
✨ How to Respond:
Block them. You’re not a reality show, and they don’t deserve front-row seats to your life.
Caspering: Friendly Ghosting
Caspering is ghosting with a smile. Instead of disappearing outright, they let you down gently before vanishing into the void.
💬 What It Sounds Like:
“You’re amazing, but I’m just not ready for anything serious.” (Then they vanish.)
👻 Why It’s Still Ghosting:
Caspering may sound polite, but it’s just ghosting with PR spin. A disappearing act is still a disappearing act, no matter how “kind” they try to make it.
✨ How to Respond:
Take the L and move on. They’ve made it clear they’re not worth your time.
Love Bombing: Explosively Toxic
Love bombing is all fireworks at first—grand gestures, endless compliments, and plans for the future… all within two weeks of knowing you. But once they’ve got you hooked, the affection fades, and the manipulation begins.
💬 What It Sounds Like:
“You’re my soulmate. I can’t wait to spend forever with you.” (After three dates.)
“No one’s ever made me feel this way before.”
💣 Why It’s Dangerous:
It’s not love—it’s a tactic to gain control. Once the thrill wears off, you’re left with emotional confusion and a whole lot of broken promises.
✨ How to Respond:
Slow them down. Real love takes time. If they can’t handle that, it’s their problem, not yours.
How to Stop These Trends in Their Tracks
1️⃣ Set Boundaries: Know your worth and demand consistency. Mixed signals? Bye.
2️⃣ Trust Your Gut: If it feels like a game, it probably is.
3️⃣ Cut the Cord: Don’t let ghosters, zombies, or orbiters linger in your life—or your social feeds.
Bury the Trends, Reclaim Your Peace
Zombie-ing, breadcrumbing, orbiting—they’re not cute, they’re not romantic, and they’re definitely not worth your energy. Dating should feel empowering, not exhausting. So bury these toxic trends, set your standards sky-high, and remember: You’re the prize, not a backup plan.
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